10-25-2010, 12:26 PM
well, I've known a few gay psychos so this shouldn't be too hard...
from personal experience :-
1.) I think, while being very careful, keeping a good sense of body language is important - remaining open in posture, not sitting too far away, not folding arms. If the situation not the person is making you uncomfortable it is a bad choice of location for a date.
2.) Eye contact - this is quite difficult, as nobody ever fell for hypnotherapy :tongue: but just holding gaze for a moment longer and assessing a person can be attractive.
3.) Being a bit of a jerk - when I think back on it, the people I always fell for most had a very distant but nice way of dealing with people. Save the Love bombs for when you're sure it's two-way traffic.
I think most of these tips are fairly well-known and obvious for anyone who's read dating tips and the various articles for relationships. Slipknotrizz made a good link to Daveywavey's videos which deal with these in a very friendly and understandable way -
from personal experience :-
1.) I think, while being very careful, keeping a good sense of body language is important - remaining open in posture, not sitting too far away, not folding arms. If the situation not the person is making you uncomfortable it is a bad choice of location for a date.
2.) Eye contact - this is quite difficult, as nobody ever fell for hypnotherapy :tongue: but just holding gaze for a moment longer and assessing a person can be attractive.
3.) Being a bit of a jerk - when I think back on it, the people I always fell for most had a very distant but nice way of dealing with people. Save the Love bombs for when you're sure it's two-way traffic.
I think most of these tips are fairly well-known and obvious for anyone who's read dating tips and the various articles for relationships. Slipknotrizz made a good link to Daveywavey's videos which deal with these in a very friendly and understandable way -