10-25-2010, 12:31 PM
Sil Wrote:3.) Being a bit of a jerk - when I think back on it, the people I always fell for most had a very distant but nice way of dealing with people. Save the Love bombs for when you're sure it's two-way traffic.
Do you mean being assertive? Assertive is sometimes confused with being a jerk, especially by people trying to copy assertive mile: