10-25-2010, 12:38 PM
juk Wrote:Do you mean being assertive? Assertive is sometimes confused with being a jerk, especially by people trying to copy assertive mile:
yes, good call J...
I should rephrase that; assertiveness... and by that I mean making some of the decisions in the dates and (possibly) relationship, knowing what they want regardless of you. Having someone live their life around is only nice after a long period of acclimatisation.
Also, like Davey says (he's just adorable, I want one ^^) not being in touch all the time. When people try to copy being assertive it's normally pretty laughable.
I have to say, I've fallen for jerks it's the oddest bit of psychology.