10-25-2010, 12:50 PM
PaulAngelo Wrote:Hi guys,
I am starting a thread to put together 30 psychological tricks to get guys love you more. I am going to get started on 5. Please include yours so that we can all be more effective in our dating and relationships.
- When you go out on a date, let the other guy talk. Probe him with questions so that he does most of the talking -> this will inflate his ego and get him to like you more.
- Complement him on the smallest things and on his physical appearance.
- Surprise him with a gift. This will build reciprocity and help you get laid with this guy. For example - taking him out to dinner or buying coffee or lunch.
- This one is good -> telling him about your friends and then saying "I will introduce you to them" -> this will make him feel like you want to include him in your life as a potential boyfriend.
- Involving him in a family matter. This one is huge. When your mother is visiting or your family member is around - bring your "new date" around. This tactic is very powerful because he will think that he is now part of the family.
Okay - what are your psycho-tactics?
So this is for just a sex only date? Surely this isn't a ground breaking date to start a relationship on.
None of those lies, tricks, cheats, deceitful acts are loving, and you reap what you sow.
More Love comes honesty and opening yourself up, even if it hurts. Trick playing may get a man into bed, may even get him to move in without, but eventually your true self will show and then all of those tricks and cheats will become a foundation of resentment. Resentments are relationship killers.