10-26-2010, 03:08 AM
Nooo Con, you're supposed to be yourself! Do you really want someone falling in love with a persona that you're putting on? I think that's being dishonest. Paul, I'm sorry but I don't like your advice. I know the whole "be yourself" thing is lame and some may think it doesn't work but lieing about yourself and acting in an unnatural way for a guy just comes off as desperate to me.
And if someone used these "tactics" in order to hook me I'd be pissed. Con... I don't know. Wait a while? I don't really know what to say. =S
Not every guy you find attractive would like you and just because you find them attractive doesn't mean you should go for them. You're supposed to have similar tastes and whatnot. Do you want hot sex and then nothing to talk about after? Maybe the guys you're trying for just aren't compatible with you.
And if someone used these "tactics" in order to hook me I'd be pissed. Con... I don't know. Wait a while? I don't really know what to say. =S
Not every guy you find attractive would like you and just because you find them attractive doesn't mean you should go for them. You're supposed to have similar tastes and whatnot. Do you want hot sex and then nothing to talk about after? Maybe the guys you're trying for just aren't compatible with you.