30 Gay Psycho Tactics to Lure In More Love And Dates

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Being yourself is the biggest trap most guys who have nothing else to offer fall into. I also used to think that being myself is all there is to it - but unless being myself means that I will make his life better, bring value to his life and make his ego shine than being myself will hurt me.

So - to those who want to be yourself - if you have success - stay "yourself" but if you cant find dates and relationships then look up the term "emotional intelligence" and pick up a few strategies.

Good luck!

Emotional intelligence is not about controlling people's minds; It's about feelings, being able to respond adequately to feelings, and having compassion, empathy, shared joys... It's not about dictating how someone else should react in a given situation. Mainly, emotional intelligence is about listening, and acting upon what that listening teaches you... To that you could add what is often valued in the outside world as diplomacy, support and encouragement. And maybe -- why not? -- a bit of humour?
I'll grant you that, Paul, seduction is a question of tactics... playing your cards right, as long as you're playing the right game.