11-03-2010, 05:45 PM
PaulAngelo Wrote:Its all about results. If you are in a relationship than stay who you are but if you are not in a relationship than you better pick up a book and learn. Eat up your pride and stop being a fag. Fags are single. Gay men are married.
I was really with you up to a point on this one, but when you word things like this you're pissing off a lot of people...
if you're in a steady realtionship does that make you more of a man? I've always hated the attitude that people who aren't seeing anyone are losers. Not to mention the idea that some people stay single specifically so they can keep getting laid and using these kind of techniques on people over and over. Praying on peoples insecurities in the name of happiness is one of the oldest and most acidic tactics; you might as well be selling snake oil.
Of course people want to be happy, and have someone in their life, and to be getting the sex they need. If it was as easy as reading a book and suddenly becoming magically empowered, there would be no need for this thread or forum. Honestly, I get it, and we're listening... but turn down the volume a little and don't insult your audience.