11-03-2010, 09:17 PM
The stupid obvious thing that Paul is not saying here is that if you want to keep a relationship going, you've either got to be hand in hand with your partner, or you have to learn to compromise, which doesn't mean lowering yourself or stooping to get the upper hand... I don't know where he's getting this cheap psychological stuff from but it sounds very shallow to me... Compromising doesn't mean being hypocritical, which is what Paul is somehow suggesting.