So I'm thinking about my virginity...

[kitschcamp]

I'm not all about sex but I do want to find a boyfriend and lose my virginity <_< thats just me I want the experience and to be done with it. More than anything, I want a boyfriend

Keep in mind that last part more than anything. You've already identified what actually is the most important thing to you. The other will come as a consequence of that.

there is MORE to being gay than JUST SEX

And life generally. I was 24 or 25 before I had sex for the first time, and I was so screwed up that that was with a woman. And afterwards I thought "er, is that it?". I tried many more times, but it just never did it for me. She was thrilled - I could last for hours and never cum. For me, it was a totally empty experience.

Then I finally did accept my sexuality, did have sex with a man for the first time, and it blew me away.

What I'm trying to say is, get your headspace right first. 99% of sex is between your ears. Doing it for the sake of doing it isn't going to make you happy. If that's your aim, then you may as well just buy a big box of Kleenex and a oil tanker of lube, because it won't make you happy. You have to be in the right place as a person first.