So I'm thinking about my virginity...

[Sil]

I wish your comment can be true.
But from my own observation all young gay guys are just rushing for something physical. Everyone that I met just wanted a hot body, a cute face and a big penis.
Probably, it will be different as we get older but I think youngster should loose themselves a little bit and be safe. So by the time we are over 35, have a life partner, we should be able to say "been there, done that, get over it" not "I wonder how it feels to be a slut and I am thinking about cheating on my partner for some casual sex"

Just to do a little bit of double-posting this really knocked me for six...

I think my partner and I would both fall squarely into the last few sentences of this quote, and it does bother me, part of the reason I carefully encourage people to at least get a little physical and try things, as it's a major worry of mine. I do get tempted like that because I didn't have as much casual sex earlier, and my partner seems quite happy in that respect having came out and been on the scene from a sorta regular age 18+

he tells me things I don't want ot hear. I wish I had more things people didn't want to hear lol ... so you pick your side, it's all about balance.