Anal Sex Advice

[eastofeden]

I am not sure if I can help you overall but one thing you mentioned I have encountered myself and maybe I can help you there...or at least give you something to consider.

I personally love anal sex and I am primarily a top but I have been a bottom as well and when I was a bottom I also grew tired of waiting for someone to get off when it took a while ( I would get easily bored) so to keep it real I either needed to establish a completely physical erotic connection where we both got off in a reasonable amount of time OR...I can be submissive and go for hours IF my partner is truly dominant and can engage me mentally as well....preferably taking me somewhere I havent' been and either would like to go or if they are REALLY GOOD..."need" to go...you would be surprised how much more you can relax with someone who is an intuitive dominant and can engage your mind, body and soul all at once.

I would shoot for mutual satisfaction versus just pleasing your partner...I also think the biggest sex organ is your imagination so use it freely...it might do the trick.

Good Luck!