12-30-2010, 09:36 AM
Hey, dude... *sad smile*
Your situation is complicated, but kinda..happy, ya know? Because you didn't lose him when you told him and because he's doing all those small things...
My advice is to sit back and enjoy what your friend is doing as much as you can and respond to it as much as you can. Don't try pushing it though or making him admit he has feelisngs for you - this may ruin your relationship. I think that when and if he is ready to say "yeah...I love you", he will do it.
And of course there is still the chance that he just loves you as a best friend and doesn't want to give up on those gestures and you know...I think that would be fine too, as long as he doesn't get a gf. He probably loves you and values your friendship a LOT...
Good luck, dude! Please, write us on here if something happens... :]
Your situation is complicated, but kinda..happy, ya know? Because you didn't lose him when you told him and because he's doing all those small things...
My advice is to sit back and enjoy what your friend is doing as much as you can and respond to it as much as you can. Don't try pushing it though or making him admit he has feelisngs for you - this may ruin your relationship. I think that when and if he is ready to say "yeah...I love you", he will do it.
And of course there is still the chance that he just loves you as a best friend and doesn't want to give up on those gestures and you know...I think that would be fine too, as long as he doesn't get a gf. He probably loves you and values your friendship a LOT...
Good luck, dude! Please, write us on here if something happens... :]
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