12-30-2010, 11:06 AM
If he isn't secretly gay/bi then he is being really cruel to you acting the way he does, when he knows how you feel about him.
I have to say that given the above I share your suspicions.
Clearly, he is not comfortable with talking about his feelings, or you talking about yours. On the other hand he seems much more comfortable with physical acts of affection. My advice to you would be to not talk about feelings but to show them. Slowly advance those hugs, massages, etc. so that they become more intimate and gently encourage him to initiate those hugs more.
Anonymous Wrote:I have been off from work the past couple weeks for the holidays...he comes into my room in the morning (really early) to give me a hug and say goodbye before he leaves for work.
I have to say that given the above I share your suspicions.
Clearly, he is not comfortable with talking about his feelings, or you talking about yours. On the other hand he seems much more comfortable with physical acts of affection. My advice to you would be to not talk about feelings but to show them. Slowly advance those hugs, massages, etc. so that they become more intimate and gently encourage him to initiate those hugs more.
Fred
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