Cheating??

[OrphanPip]

I'm in agreement with Fred.

I don't oppose open relationships for those it suits, but it's foolish to expect a monogamous relationship without there being officially set up boundaries. I just can't be comfortable with open relationships, and I would make that clear to any future partners from the get go, that kind of stuff should be established in the beginning of any serious relationship. Assuming someone's standards will simply be in line with yours just seems like a recipe for disaster.

Edit: And to address the thread topic, I've never cheated.