3-Year Predicament - And I'm kinda scared...

[Anonymous]

Yes, you said it. You need out of this mess. His behaviour is bullying and controlling. You don't need it. If you decide to stay with him do you honestly think things can get better?

It is clear they won't. I asked him to be up front and he has not been.

I am honestly considering writing him a letter and leaving it while taking what I can over to a new residence. If he can't pay me the respect of telling me whats up, why should I to his face?