08-22-2011, 03:40 AM
I have alot of experience and this advice usually makes people uncomfortable but it is the truth every time...
If you have a man who "suspects" you of cheating and going out on him and it is not true...he is ALWAYS projecting his own feelings on to you. He is not whole...he is separated inside of himself. This is his own choice because if he was honest with himself he would not be projecting on to you. Alot of times someone's ego prevents them from owning their own sh*t and displays of rage and trying to control everything around them are symptoms.
I avoid these people...they are always trouble and they will turn everything they do into something YOU did if given a chance...totally toxic behavior.
Tell him to take that to his therapy session and if his therapist doesn't understand immediately...find a new therapist.
If you have a man who "suspects" you of cheating and going out on him and it is not true...he is ALWAYS projecting his own feelings on to you. He is not whole...he is separated inside of himself. This is his own choice because if he was honest with himself he would not be projecting on to you. Alot of times someone's ego prevents them from owning their own sh*t and displays of rage and trying to control everything around them are symptoms.
I avoid these people...they are always trouble and they will turn everything they do into something YOU did if given a chance...totally toxic behavior.
Tell him to take that to his therapy session and if his therapist doesn't understand immediately...find a new therapist.