3-Year Predicament - And I'm kinda scared...

[Anonymous]

I'm a person that doesn't tolerate bullying of any kind, it is never warranted and there is never a reward....it's only punishment for the victim...YOU are the victim.

I think you should get out of the relationship, if it can be called that. Maybe it was once. Writing him a letter is not a bad idea, but as well as doing that I would also confide in friends and have them around you as much as possible once you move because I can just see this guys isn't going to let sleeping dogs lie...he WILL end up on your doorstep and I would hope that you aren't alone when that happens.

I wish you all the very best, I know it is a huge moment and step, but it is step you must take. Keep us posted

I will make it clear that he won't be authorized on my new property until I give the OK, and he has to call first. He won't let sleeping dogs lie, and I'm in for a ride when it goes down. I'm not prepared to deal with that (or so I feel).