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[Drew]

I've tried two dating sites thus far: Adam4Adam and JustGuys and both weren't helpful at all. Every dude I've ever met in person because of those sites wanted nothing more than to get in my pants and ditch me right after. Definitely not what I'm into. I've had a few decent/fun conversations with guys on those sites. Unfortunately, by the third or fourth day of talking they'd lose patience because I hadn't yet mentioned/asked for sex.

Nowadays I only go to those sites if it's late at night and I'm bored with no one else to talk to, haha. I definitely wouldn't recommend using one of those two sites (or the others that have been mentioned, going by what's been said about them) to find a potential soulmate.

I'm not trying to be facetious or anything, but.....those particular sites aren't really meant for dating/romance. Adam4adam is a hook-up site, plain and simple....if, you know, the sexually-laden ads didn't hint at that. Match, Chemistry, OkCupid are probably more up your alley.

Dating websites don't work for me......I can get dates on them once in a while (went on one the other day in fact) but they never amount to much. I wish I could meet guys the old fashioned way, but I only go to gay bars to be social with friends, not to get laid.....and gay-oriented social groups (like hiking club or social groups at the local LGBT center), while they're fun and everything, tend to attract guys that are either too young or too old for me. Where are my mid-twenty to mid-thirty peeps at? Oh right, NYC and Boston.

Oops, sorry about getting off on a tangent there.