12-11-2011, 01:40 AM
[COLOR="Blue"]The guy above me has a decent point at "ignore the awkwardness", in my experience, if you ignore it, it does just go away (long boring story of getting with a closeted flat mate and him feeling nervous etc around me but now he's back to being my best mate).
But all the stuff you've said about holding hands, cuddling in bed etc, I do that with my current, all very straight flat mates (for gods sake, I was spooning one in bed last night watching paranormal activity) and it doesn't mean anything more than being truely close mates. They're all fine with my sexuality, if anything two of them turned around and said they thought as much. My best mate had a bit of a problem with it, and you'll probably find the same. Not that your gay, more that you havn't been true honest with someone, something kinda fundamental to most relationships!
In all honesty, he's more than likely not to be gay and don't pin your hopes on him. Out yourself to him and go from there.
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But all the stuff you've said about holding hands, cuddling in bed etc, I do that with my current, all very straight flat mates (for gods sake, I was spooning one in bed last night watching paranormal activity) and it doesn't mean anything more than being truely close mates. They're all fine with my sexuality, if anything two of them turned around and said they thought as much. My best mate had a bit of a problem with it, and you'll probably find the same. Not that your gay, more that you havn't been true honest with someone, something kinda fundamental to most relationships!
In all honesty, he's more than likely not to be gay and don't pin your hopes on him. Out yourself to him and go from there.
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