Cheated

[East]

I don't promise fidelity to anyone which is odd because I have been faithful for 25 years to the same man..and happily so...the irony is funny to me when I see so many of my friends around me desperately trying to control everything...things they cannot control...and doing the same thing over and over with the same results. . I also dont' ask for fidelity because I don't make promises I am not 100% positive I can keep...giving my word to someone is a HUGE deal for me and I keep my word... nor do I want anyone making any promises to me that they cannot keep and I don't think fidelity is a promise anyone should make with 100% certainty...at least not in my world. Fidelity is negotiable...honesty is NOT.

For me...the lie is the worst part so my question to you would be...was he truthful about it? Did he tell you? It would make all the difference for me but you have to do what is right for you.