Alone and not sure how to deal with it

[pellaz]

give it some time boo:

I don't have many friends ... but in August I split with my partner of 15 months

you need to detox from your previous relationship. Good time to enjoy some un attached sex and get over your last boy. Boy friends do come and go, its the husband you need to worry about.

I always been a loner but suddenly I feel I need someone and don't know how to deal with it

your previous relationship has make you an emotional dependent. Not a bad thing, Use this to be a better stronger individual, its how we are built.

I don't have many friends

open up your criteria what you call a friend:
-hag girl friends are complimentary to a gay man. Get some girl friends.
-there is nothing wrong with sex. Do the one night stands or friends with benefits will you bleed. Just be honest with your self and others what you are doing. Its not so important who did you last night but who they know. For example; they may have an X you can re cycle.
-i had a great friend, it was an Irish Setter. I loved that dog soooo much and it emotionally carried me for many years. Ok i am a simpleton; boys come and go. The dog was a lifer.

every time I talk to someone knew I so desperate for them to stay friends with me or more I mess up and they usually end up blocking me.

You cant expect people to just give you what YOU want. Its a two way exchange. Up front ask them their expectations. Other wise get the pet dog.


i really think its the holidays. Next year you will feel fine. Occupy your time in between.