12-06-2011, 07:19 PM
I was thinking too that when he says that if he is interested in another dude that he would call a girl or that he would have me on speed dial and contact me that this doesn't make sense because if you're interested in someone then you're going to do something with them point blank bottom line.
And to answer your question it was an agreement that we had made with each other that he said to me that when it comes to other guys that he would be committed to me. That's the reason. It sounds like you think that is being unfair to be that way with him so if that's the case then that sounds like maybe I need to rethink that and allow him to do stuff with other guys.
With respect to the 5% thingy I agree that it's not actually a percentage. He is bisexual and that means he is sexually attracted to both male and female. If there is a guy that interests him then there's no way to put a percentage and in my opinion it's hard for someone to say that there's a slim chance that it would happen because if you're interested in someone then you are going to go for it.
He is always concerned about privacy and others not finding out. He told me that I am the only one he has told that he is bisexual and if he does decide to do something with another dude he's going to do it. That's why he said if it is going to happen it's going to happen. He told me that if he did do something with another dude that he would tell me, but with him being so concerned about privacy it seems highly not probable that he would do so. It's like him telling a girl that he is doing stuff with another girl it isn't going to happen because he doesn't want to hurt their feelings. This would be the same case in my view when it comes to me.
He essentially likes to have sex with a lot of people and if he does that with girls this makes it highly likely he would do the same thing when it comes to guys.
And to answer your question it was an agreement that we had made with each other that he said to me that when it comes to other guys that he would be committed to me. That's the reason. It sounds like you think that is being unfair to be that way with him so if that's the case then that sounds like maybe I need to rethink that and allow him to do stuff with other guys.
With respect to the 5% thingy I agree that it's not actually a percentage. He is bisexual and that means he is sexually attracted to both male and female. If there is a guy that interests him then there's no way to put a percentage and in my opinion it's hard for someone to say that there's a slim chance that it would happen because if you're interested in someone then you are going to go for it.
He is always concerned about privacy and others not finding out. He told me that I am the only one he has told that he is bisexual and if he does decide to do something with another dude he's going to do it. That's why he said if it is going to happen it's going to happen. He told me that if he did do something with another dude that he would tell me, but with him being so concerned about privacy it seems highly not probable that he would do so. It's like him telling a girl that he is doing stuff with another girl it isn't going to happen because he doesn't want to hurt their feelings. This would be the same case in my view when it comes to me.
He essentially likes to have sex with a lot of people and if he does that with girls this makes it highly likely he would do the same thing when it comes to guys.
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