Mate has not been honest with me

[fenris]

I think this % things and a bit open relationship don´t work. For my opinion there are only two options : no sex with people out of the relationship or free sex for all and this free-sex-for-all-think only work when there is no jealousy involved.
Honestly I don´t know what my man does, when he is at home for 14 days and honestly spoken : It is not important for me. ... If he comes back to me and I start counting all parts of his body are on the right place and nothing is missed :biggrin: so it can not be very wrong what he did when he was at home. Important is that all what the parts of a relationship are doing is safe.
It is not worth to destroy the masses of nerves by counting allowed sex, not allowed sex..... % and to hope that your man comes back. I always say : I know my worth...and if a partner decides for another guy ... Ok ... I can sure find something better but : I´m a macho...