12-07-2011, 05:20 AM
Hey! I'm in San Diego too!
Anyways, it sounds to me like you want a relationship and he doesn't seem to want a relationship, he wants to play the field. So it seems like you guys are in different parts of your life with regards to a relationship.
In my opinion if you're the only one he's told that he's bi that can make it tough to have a monogamous relationship with. Just from my own life, before I came out to my family and most of my friends there was no way I was going to be in a monogamous relationship because I wasn't out so no way I was going to be able to be in a relationship and hide it at the same time. I think you should look for someone who wants to be in a monogamous relationship as well, it'll be a lot less stressful in my opinion.
Anyways, it sounds to me like you want a relationship and he doesn't seem to want a relationship, he wants to play the field. So it seems like you guys are in different parts of your life with regards to a relationship.
In my opinion if you're the only one he's told that he's bi that can make it tough to have a monogamous relationship with. Just from my own life, before I came out to my family and most of my friends there was no way I was going to be in a monogamous relationship because I wasn't out so no way I was going to be able to be in a relationship and hide it at the same time. I think you should look for someone who wants to be in a monogamous relationship as well, it'll be a lot less stressful in my opinion.
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