12-21-2011, 12:21 AM
hello and welcome to GS.
It's great that you have discovered who you are and it can be extremely difficult to come out to someone, but I don't think it would be a good idea to show The Engineer that you have feelings for him. at least not yet. do you know if he is gay friendly? the thing I would be concerned about the most would be your private info being leaked on the air.
The first thing I would do is come out to a few more people (including the engineer) and see where things go from there.
It's great that you have discovered who you are and it can be extremely difficult to come out to someone, but I don't think it would be a good idea to show The Engineer that you have feelings for him. at least not yet. do you know if he is gay friendly? the thing I would be concerned about the most would be your private info being leaked on the air.
The first thing I would do is come out to a few more people (including the engineer) and see where things go from there.