12-21-2011, 01:32 AM
the gay population varies but its between 3 and 8% of the general flock so low probability anyone you meet at work is gay single man.
Obvious its bad to mix you home life and work. I am out at work. I still have to find a way to mix with everyone on the team. Usually tell the new co-worker directly who i am and my expectations. Usually along the lines... "I am a gay man and I am telling you because you might have expected it and or you will hear it from the rumor mill... "
The day I outed myself I went to the company rumor mill person and told her to tell everyone i am gay, no bit deal.
There are 4 gay men at the company (~200 employees).
It always leads to complications having a crush on a straight co worker and there are actually many eligible and willing gay boy friends to pick from, all of them outside work. I would hate that any of the household drama would follow me into work the next morning. You think the fist gay boy ( if a co worker) you meet will be your husband?
Obvious its bad to mix you home life and work. I am out at work. I still have to find a way to mix with everyone on the team. Usually tell the new co-worker directly who i am and my expectations. Usually along the lines... "I am a gay man and I am telling you because you might have expected it and or you will hear it from the rumor mill... "
The day I outed myself I went to the company rumor mill person and told her to tell everyone i am gay, no bit deal.
There are 4 gay men at the company (~200 employees).
It always leads to complications having a crush on a straight co worker and there are actually many eligible and willing gay boy friends to pick from, all of them outside work. I would hate that any of the household drama would follow me into work the next morning. You think the fist gay boy ( if a co worker) you meet will be your husband?
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