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just venting
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Trywait, while I don't see much wrong with the sup message, except that maybe it's a little too familiar and may show some laziness in thought (I don't know how it can be construed by different people) but the best thing you could do is to own up to the 'mistake' and take stock from it. I'd message that person back and just say I was sorry that they didn't understand it as it was meant. Maybe you could expand a bit on why you sent it, and how you considered they were on your mind at the time. If you bothered to write to them at all, it's probably because you were trying to make a connection or reconnection and they didn't see it as it was meant. Just say sorry, which is polite and explain why you sent the message. Just maybe agree that the message was too trite or badly worded, but that the concern you were showing was genuine.
It doesn't hurt to be considerate.
That's my two cents. Again, you can maybe just choose to ignore this person in the future.
Maybe, you could also tell him a word of your own mind about the rather rude words he's used to respond to you. "ignorant", "desperate" are both harsh words to use.... He's turned what was meant as an innocent message into something that was deliberately hurtful. His loss.
Cheer up.
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Messages In This Thread
just venting - by trywait - 12-28-2011, 07:27 PM
just venting - by AirBorn - 12-28-2011, 07:30 PM
just venting - by sacredcake - 12-28-2011, 07:39 PM
just venting - by trywait - 12-28-2011, 07:39 PM
just venting - by AirBorn - 12-28-2011, 07:44 PM
just venting - by stu - 12-28-2011, 08:49 PM
just venting - by azulai - 12-28-2011, 09:23 PM
just venting - by dfiant - 12-28-2011, 09:29 PM
just venting - by trywait - 12-28-2011, 11:07 PM
just venting - by Brandi0514 - 12-29-2011, 03:07 AM
just venting - by YetAnother - 12-29-2011, 05:26 AM
just venting - by East - 12-29-2011, 07:38 AM
just venting - by princealbertofb - 12-29-2011, 08:37 AM
just venting - by trywait - 12-29-2011, 09:08 AM

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