Crushing on a friend fml

[DerJack]

I entirely agree with Kiid on this one. For one, you need to be honest with this guy and forget him as a 'possible man' in your life or 'target' (if ya know what I mean), just make it friends, if you can't handle that, then forget him altogether. I'd also recommend attempting to change your outlook so that you think of no one as a candidate so to speak for a relationship... try just living as you for a while, remind yourself what makes you happy about living as an individual, not as a member of a relationship. Ultimately learn to be happy with yourself before you seek out another man to make happy... and when you're feeling this down, like Kiid said, you've got friends out there, you just have to connect with them, and if they tell you they're too busy, let them know how seriously low you feel and how important it is for you to make this contact.

...is what I'd suggest. Hope this helps, and don't apologize for being at a low point in your life, we all hit them from time to time, this forum is always here to gather people willing to help one another out.