01-15-2012, 07:49 PM
well drinking doesnt make things clear, its actually a depressant so it can make matters worse if your allready struggling. Been depressed and coming out of your long term relationship has prob help bring things to a head and its time to open up to someone, hopefully a doctor about your illness, which depression is - in the uk we've just had a famous football legend hang himself through depression and he looked like he was so happy too - it really is time to get help mate if u have suicidal thoughts - why not explain to this new guy the situation, im sure he'll understand that you want to get things together in your mind before starting to get serious with someone again - good luck and please post back to say how ur goin