Crushing on a friend fml

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getting out of a relationship it takes a bit to think for yourself. Somehow you were able to do this before the relationship. I think its fine, maybe a must do thing, to whore around for a while and establish a new sense of self worth.
-be truthful with your self and the boys you meet, tell them you just getting over a relationship and dont want to start another just yet. You may have to repeat this several times to the same person as they are un willing to accept your un availability. The smart one will hang in there till your done and be there for you when you can emotionally accept him.
-set some sort of time limit
-re start whatever activities in your life before the failed relationship.