First Sex Toy Before First Sex Experience?

[Anonymous]

Generally speaking, masturbation is a good way to get to know your body, how it works and what you like.

To that end, a sex toy or two might enhance your masturbation.

But I offer one word of caution: Masturbation is a normal and desirable COMPONENT of a full sexual diet.

In other words, sex is best enjoyed with a real partner. Don't let your masturbation and toys become a *surrogate* for the fuller experience of partnered sex. Let it be more like a side dish to the main course.

Believe me, I nourished myself on side dishes for too long and never got around to the main course until much later.

Enjoy.

Oh trust me, i'm in no way using this as a long term substitute for sexual intimacy.
I plan to get round to that when i find someone i would like to pursue a relationship with.
Which could be a while. The future is unpredictable after all.:redface:

Go for the sex toys I actually got one on order. but waiting for a partner? who knows when thatll happen right? could be tomorrow or a year down the road. for me, Im focusing on my career so I have no time for a relationship.

Would your advice change if i said i have my eye on someone?
Due to several factors a relationship is unlikely, but i sure have fallen for a guy.:redface:
I guess what i'm trying to say is, is hope a good reason to postpone your advice?