So confused...

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So here is my dilemma. I am bi-curious I suppose and I have never been with a guy and I have no idea where to meet one. I feel like this is something I need to try but I cant find a way to do it.

I am not interested in the club/bar scene. I would love to meet a guy who isn't overly masculine, who doesn't act "gay", who doesn't let his sexual preference define who he is and how he acts... just a regular guy (who happens to like guys).

Everything I have read online about where to meet other men is usually go to a gay club/bar or go to some sort of gay social gathering or interest group or try online dating sites... none of these have worked for me. Can anyone give me any other suggestions? Is anyone else in the same boat as me?