Confused guy.

[LateBloomer]

To start off im a 21 year old guy living with mom working away from home my state and some what unhappy. Im having trouble with my sexual identity. I had my first homosexual experiance when i was about 8 years old in mexico back then it felt as if it was just a game. Then again when i was 10 with a boy who lived in the same apartment with my perents and I. Afetr i had moved away to a new home and met some new friends I looked forward to having the same kind of friendship i had with my other previous friends but by that time in life i had learned what being gay was and what it ment to other boys my age "different" unwanted. So i tryd to forget what happened in my past and pretend i was just like them to fit in. This went on till junior year when i met a girl and i liked her she was sweet smart and well she liked me. This is the part of my life that im triping about was i just attracted to her because all my other friends would have? Or was it because i realy was. And at the same still being interested in guys?:confused:

I'll tell you what someone told me once: You just need to date some people (men and women) and find out who you're attracted to. At your age, dating can be fun and casual (this is actually true at any age, but I've found single women in their 30s can be ON A MISSION).



Just don't put too much pressure on yourself to find a label. Be open to new experiences and new people. Try to have fun and live honestly.

Check back in here from time to time and let us know how it goes.