Confused guy.

[East]

Ahhhhhhhhh....labels.

I have been in love with a man for the past 25 years and I know I will always love him and the sex is great...I was in relationships with men (and one woman) before him...so one would assume I am gay and I use the term because it works and I am uninterested in any other labels because that one works fine for me....but I am so much more than any label.

...and the truth is...when I see threads about cute guys and even conversations throughout my whole life...my choices are way different than almost anyone else's to the point I usually do not want to even mention them and even more puzzling...the first thing I think of when someone mentions "sexiest" is...Mariska Hargitay. I am more sexually attracted to Mariska Hargitay (or Gina Gershon or Milla Jovovich) than ANY of the hairless young men presented as sex symbols...so go figure????? The usual male sex symbols bore the crap out of me....I dont' even feel like I am the least bit gay wen I see them because I have zero interest. Although I liked the under 40 crowd when I was under 40:biggrin:...all the men I find sexy today are OVER 40......

.....and then the question ...am I bi? Am I gay? am I a closet straight person?

Who cares?

I am an individual. :biggrin:

I hope you can take something from that.