Love...or is it... what is it???

[im_so_confused]

Well.....we are over. It ended about 4 days ago and he texted me and said that he didn't want to see me anymore. But I hurt him by accidently sending an SMS about him to him and not to somebody else....he was with me at the time.
I'm just so confused as to what to do.
Peter

[Shadow]

BUT you were not with martyn like in person if you get me, you had it based online and met up a few times - not relationship to net so you lose contact. Im also hoping you didnt do it over the space of 5 weeks :confused:

They started in person, then moved to net, you started net to person which is a decent step not a step backwards, how would you feel from always having martyn to not? You couldnt do it. And that is my point.

Hey babe mile:,

Yep, you're absolutely right. We exchanged PM's on gaydar, then we moved to e-mails, then we moved to MSN, then the phone (and we spent a YEAR talking on MSN and then on the phone before we first met in real life - things just seemed to keep getting in the way), and from there there's been no looking back for either of us - 'tis coolies !! :biggrin:.

So yeah - definitely didn't do it all in five weeks - I think that woulda frazzled my little brain to be honest :redface:.

xx

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

[spotysocks]

Well.....we are over. It ended about 4 days ago and he texted me and said that he didn't want to see me anymore. But I hurt him by accidently sending an SMS about him to him and not to somebody else....he was with me at the time.
I'm just so confused as to what to do.
Peter

Sorry to hear this, its not a happy time when a relationship ends but i ll say the cliche' that something else new will start for you. x

[spotysocks]

Hey babe mile:,

Yep, you're absolutely right. We exchanged PM's on gaydar, then we moved to e-mails, then we moved to MSN, then the phone (and we spent a YEAR talking on MSN and then on the phone before we first met in real life - things just seemed to keep getting in the way), and from there there's been no looking back for either of us - 'tis coolies !! :biggrin:.

So yeah - definitely didn't do it all in five weeks - I think that woulda frazzled my little brain to be honest :redface:.

xx

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

Oh i didnt know that , cool! Did any of thinks of relocating if you havent done so already of course.

[Mark]

Sucks you split but could be for the best...?


And shadow! Umm was it hard being online and that then? Share your experience :biggrin:

[Sui]

Well.....we are over. It ended about 4 days ago and he texted me and said that he didn't want to see me anymore. But I hurt him by accidently sending an SMS about him to him and not to somebody else....he was with me at the time.
I'm just so confused as to what to do.
Peter

Aww... well, who knows... sometimes, a break-up is for the best! And hey, who's to say that there isn't someone twice as good as this guy? mile: Keep your head up! There's always someone out there for everybody.

[Shadow]

Well.....we are over. It ended about 4 days ago and he texted me and said that he didn't want to see me anymore. But I hurt him by accidently sending an SMS about him to him and not to somebody else....he was with me at the time.
I'm just so confused as to what to do.
Peter

Apologise for hurting him, let him know how you feel and that you'd like for things to continue and see how he takes it ... if that's what you want. Don't beg, never beg - be honest and let things take their natural course ... and as Twazzle says, if it doesn't work out, it might just be for the best in the fullness of time ... you never know ...

I'm sorry for apparently ignoring your post - I didn't see it when I wrote my last one :redface:.

babe - keep your chin up and keep posting if you'd like our help/advice - we're all happy to try and watch out for you I'm sure I'm safe in saying xx

Twazzle, as for your request I think I'll start up a new thread, as it probs affects more people than just me and im_so_confused bless him ...

xx

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

[Sui]

Hey babe mile:,

Yep, you're absolutely right. We exchanged PM's on gaydar, then we moved to e-mails, then we moved to MSN, then the phone (and we spent a YEAR talking on MSN and then on the phone before we first met in real life - things just seemed to keep getting in the way), and from there there's been no looking back for either of us - 'tis coolies !! :biggrin:.

So yeah - definitely didn't do it all in five weeks - I think that woulda frazzled my little brain to be honest :redface:.

xx

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

Aww!:biggrin: Lucky xP I've been talking to my guy through AIM/MSN for two years (ish) now. :tongue: He's too lazy to get a cell... sad times..

But yes! Let's hear about your little story about meeting Martin!

[Mark]

I have no guy.. LOL

[im_so_confused]

I really, really do want him back. I left him a big long voicemail telling him how I feel and what I want and that I can explain anything. I was really nervous though :-(
I just want him back in my arms to hold and to touch, I don't care about the sex, it's really not important right now :-(
I'm feeling really down, don't know if I'm coming or going lately.