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04-10-2012, 01:48 AM

Hey guys ! i am new in here, so kinda need an advice. So here is the thing, i met a guy who is very good looking we clicked he likes me i like him, but the thing is i think he is a bottom just like me, so the sex part won't happen.i just want to ask should i get into this and hook up, he is so cute...just for the kissing and touching part only :biggrin: oh i forgot to say that i am a virgin, never even kissed by a guy, so i want to try i deserve it i was a good boy Smile

04-10-2012, 01:58 AM

That is really your call to make.

After all you have pretty much decided that you are 100% a bottom and unwilling or unable to top. Thus have already decided sex ain't gonna happen.

And I find it interesting that you only think he is a bottom. I guess you are better at reading minds than me, I usually asked at some point in the relationship 'so are you a top or a bottom?'.

04-10-2012, 01:59 AM

Bowyn Aerrow Wrote:That is really your call to make.

After all you have pretty much decided that you are 100% a bottom and unwilling or unable to top. Thus have already decided sex ain't gonna happen.

And I find it interesting that you only think he is a bottom. I guess you are better at reading minds than me, I usually asked at some point in the relationship 'so are you a top or a bottom?'.

well i don't know him that good to ask hime but i think he just looks like a botttom idk Sad

thanks anyway. But i so want to hook up, i never have and kinda want it so badly, i guess it feels sooo goood, and when i say cute believe me it means he is a cutie pie, I am very picky

04-10-2012, 02:39 AM

If you know him well enough you can hook up, I'm sure you know him well enough to ask?

But in my opinion, if you guys got naked and realize both are in fact bottoms... there are other things to do Wink

In fact, maybe he is willing to show you the ropes when it comes to bottoming?

04-10-2012, 02:41 AM

Spades Wrote:If you know him well enough you can hook up, I'm sure you know him well enough to ask?

But in my opinion, if you guys got naked and realize both are in fact bottoms... there are other things to do
In fact, maybe he is willing to show you the ropes when it comes to bottoming?

honestly, as a virgin not only i don't what else to do but i have no clue what those ropes u mention are for . help ?

04-10-2012, 03:09 AM

I'm sure you've watched some porn before?
There are other things than anal to do with a guy, like kissing, touching, wanking, licking and sucking.

And by 'the ropes' I didnt mean bondage, more the basics, like how to do anal masturbation.

The most important thing to remember is do what you feel comfortable with!

04-10-2012, 10:07 AM

Spades Wrote:I'm sure you've watched some porn before?
There are other things than anal to do with a guy, like kissing, touching, wanking, licking and sucking.

And by 'the ropes' I didnt mean bondage, more the basics, like how to do anal masturbation.

The most important thing to remember is do what you feel comfortable with!

Thank you, it is very clear now Smile

04-10-2012, 05:10 PM

I hope it helps :biggrin:
Let me know how it went.

mrk2010 · 04-10-2012, 06:38 PM

Sex isn't everything buddy, I say get to know him better and see what each others interests are, not everything revolves around what goes on in the bedroom. Maybe hold your horses give him a chance and see what happens.

04-10-2012, 11:44 PM

mrk2010 Wrote:Sex isn't everything buddy, I say get to know him better and see what each others interests are, not everything revolves around what goes on in the bedroom. Maybe hold your horses give him a chance and see what happens.

he is a great person very inteligent, but i do not ike him in a platonic way i would like to do sth with him because he is so sexy, and i have never kissed a guy before so i want to use this opportunity, seems like a person i could trust but too bad he is a botttom Sad