Bowyn Aerrow,
I'm not part of my local gay community either. I mean I go to a gay club once and a while, but no one really talks to me there aside from the friends I went there with.
It seems that I don't really have anything in common with other gay guys other than the fact that I like guys. For a community that screams of being all inclusive sometimes the vibe I get is quite the opposite.
As for the stereotypes you've mentioned. I can say the same about other guys of other races about being pushy and pushing themselves to guys, I don't get when an Asian guy does it, it all of a sudden becomes our stereotype..
...although you are right about the 'looking for white boys' bit, lol..!
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Heres the brunt truth; White guys with any muscle that is visible are typically jackasses (Not all just the ones that are online and cruising for sex). They're in that young stage where they're attractive as fuck, have the sex drive of a horse, and aren't looking for commitment. I think the whole no Asians thing is more a trend to be honest. I really doubt all these guys don't like someone just because of their skin color sexually. I think they think that no Asian can be as muscley as them and will forever be a twig. That and the whole small dick stereotype which shockingly Ive come across and asked people, they believe.
Tldr; White musclehead young gay guys are whores and are just following a trend. I'm pretty certain that at some point it was no blacks as well. Some may have preferences and Ive come across some guys who just aren't attracted to guys like that I can understand, but there's just too many white gay guys who put no Asians thats its just kinda WTFish and I honeslty believe more of a omg if I dont put this up I won't be cool!
My own thing: I love all people, but to be honest, I'm not too attracted to black men. There have been a few, but I ain't gonna put in my profile No blacks! That'd just be downright rude, offensive, and kinda insensitive. Which is also kinda why I don't get a good impression of anyone on dating sites who has anything like that in their profile. Shows me they're not open-minded enough to the point where they'd consider dating someone of a skin color they don't like just to see if they connect.
Rant over sorry about the long ass post, but this needs to be said and repeated to people.
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DarkDaisuke,
Thanks for that, your tl;dr is as long as your rant, hehe ;D
I have my preference as well, but I'm open to the idea of meeting the 'right' guy whatever race or ethnicity they may be.
I'm just annoyed at the fact that most non-coloured guys think once they hear Asian is automatically someone skinny, straight hair etc etc.. but Asian/People from Asia come in different shapes, colours, and packages [great I make it sound like we're Tamagotchi's now, lol].
tl;dr Asians are like Pokemons, yes..! [jk!]
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I'm with VagabondKitten--Asian boys are adorable! And Filipinos--doubly so, hehe! Of course, personality counts for a lot, too. We all have different preferences.
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Personally, I could give a flying f*** about the color of one's skin or what country they hail from. Sexy is sexy right?
Quite honestly, I'm more attracted to a guy's intelligence and sense of humor than what his skin looks like. Not to say the outside doesn't matter...but it ranks very low on my totem pole of relationship requirements.
Sadly, I have seen racism in our community as well. It boggles my mind, but idiots will be idiots I suppose.
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I don't have preference when it comes to a guy. It doesn't matter what religion, belief, skin color, nationality etc. But my guy needs to be an open minded, kind and modest guy. And I need to 'click' with him.
My apology but I can't find a more modest way to phrase my words. But I have been approached by guys from many races. Locals and foreigners. My biggest problem is that whilst I can attract guys, I don't know how to take the second step forward. Actually I do but I become shy when I'm close to them. This attitude annoys the hell out of me because I am generally known as a very easy going, talkative and friendly guy. I can talk to strangers for hours without a hitch.
I believe confidence, high self esteem and how you carry yourself are very important to attract anyone. I'm still learning to overcome my shyness myself.
You don't need to wear the most expensive clothes to catch someone's eyes. It's all about how you wear your clothes and how you carry yourself throughout. Pardon me but I don't get why a lot of young gays in my country are so obsessed with high end branded clothes (Gucci etc.). My friend's friend willing to eat instant noodles every day for months just so he can afford Gucci. Stupid. Buy what you can afford. Measure your finance.
Don't be pretentious. Be yourself.
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Some white guy told me it's quite convenient for him that lots people liking white.
I don't particularly look for white, but there's not many choices.
When you come to a place where there serves mostly apple for food,
If you don't eat apple, you gonna die.
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Not another Asian thread.
