I need advice

[Anonymous]

Hi... My problem is a bit... Unusual... I think. It stands very close to my heart and I have very hard speaking about it in general, but... Have anyone thought they've had an unusually small penis? I mean mine is as big as my thumb in flaccid state which is really small, it sounds so lame to speak about it but it brings so much shame in my life. Many used to tease me a lot when I went in school for it, I used to skip every gym class since the year of 14. Although that we don't have gym class in Collage, but I've never let my self get intimate with someone as I am just way to ashamed of it. Everywhere I go I am constantly reminded of the fact that everyone wants a big dick. I visited an drop in reception for sexually transmitted deceases and other malfunctions and I just got denied service and got sent away to another reception, I was already nervous before but I've never been able to visit anyone ever since, I'm just to ashamed and so I've just ignored the problem. The Internet haven't either been to helpful, I thought I got tight foreskin but I can draw the foreskin back an forth as flaccid or when I got an erection. There has been a lot of commotions of certain pills, penis pumps as such but do they really work? Many has been ripped of on buying expensive pills that doesn't work. Does anyone have any suggestion what I should do? I can't stand being alone and being ashamed, cause lets face it a freaking small dick is not attractive, and I'm sure I wont please anyone like someone who has a meaty sausage.

[pellaz]

... Everywhere I go I am constantly reminded of the fact that everyone wants a big dick. I visited an drop in reception for sexually transmitted deceases and other malfunctions and I just got denied service and got sent away to another reception, I was already nervous before but I've never been able to visit anyone ever since, I'm just to ashamed and so I've just ignored the problem ...

I dont know what was the reason for going to the clinic, or the particulars of the incident but you need to report these people.

You first have to work on that self love issue but you have read lots of replies that gay sex, porn mean nothing. If you are indeed gay or straight its you ability to carry on a relationship with a guy or gal.

[dfiant]

OWN YOUR PENIS.

Society places too much emphasis on size and it is a known fact as opposed to a feel good statement, that size doesn't matter.

Of course there are those that prefer large penises and those that prefer small penises and then there are other who don't care. I sit between the latter 2, I don't care but I would prefer a smaller penis because larger penises are a turn off.

Don't let yourself get obssessed to the point that your penis is controlling your life. Pumps and pills for enlargement are dangerous and , pardon the pun, equal to pissing money up a wall.

I'm sorry you have had bad experiences as a result of your endowment, but the problem is in your mind, a seed planted by superfiscial people around you because there is certainly nothing unattractive about a small penis.

Sculptures done in the times past were all given small penises because the sculptors believed that large penises were distracting from the art of the sculpture. It is also believed (Don't know if it was proven) that the ancient Greeks and Romans had small penises and the 'groutesquely large penises of the modern day are a result of hormones.

Don't let your character and personality be eclipsed by your fears and obsessions of your penis size, you may miss the opportunity to find your knight in shining armour who will love you and cherish you for WHO you are

[Taharka]

I think that's quite a common problem you have, loads of guys think this at some stage. I know there's loads of websites and ads claiming they can make your penis bigger but i wouldn't trust any of them personally. I'm no expert but i'm pretty sure there's no evidence any of those pills/pumps work.

It's probably not what you want to hear but the best thing you can do is realise that it doesn't matter as much as you think it does. It's probably more of a problem for you than whoever you end up with. And to be honest, if someone does have a problem with it, they're definitely not worth being with. And believe it or not, you don't have to have a huge penis to please someone.

[Rainbowmum]

Hello Anon,

Please do not define yourself by the size of your penis.
Do not allow self doubt to rob you of a life and love.

Life is difficult enough as it is , please do not add more obstacles ,it is short ,enjoy it embrace it .
More importantly get out there and live it.

[DJM]

"It's not how big, it's how mean." -Lady GaGa

[Bowyn Aerrow]

If the penis could be grown, humanity would die out in a single generation.

Why? Because nearly every male on earth would grow his until its literally a third leg.

The average penis size is 3.5 to 3.7 inches when soft and between 5.0-5.7 inches when hard. For those still paranoid, that’s 9 to 9.5 centimeters at ease and 12.8 to 14 centimeters at attention.

Anything bigger, and you can apply to be Ron Jeremy’s stunt double.

As far as circumference goes, 3.3 to 3.5 inches (8.5 to 9 centimeters) is normal when flaccid and 3.9 to 4.1 (10 to 10.5 centimeters) when erect.

http://www.askmen.com/daily/sex_tips_400...-size.html

[Person66]

What everyone is telling you is true, don't get upset about you're penis size.

There are many things I love about my boyfriend, honestly I really don't even think of penis size. The bottom line there is that he has one and it works!

[East]

True Story.....

When I was young and first started working bartending in clubs...I thought it was really weird when people would ask me about someone's penis size...I thought it was the weirdest question and couldn't for the life of me figure out why so many people asked about that....it took maybe 3-4 years and countless conversations and observations to at least figure out what all the fuss was about.

...and having so many conversations one on one with so many gay men you learn alot of "stuff":biggrin:...and one thing I can tell you is that many men PREFER small penis's...I am not trying to make you feel better...I am serious.

So you seek some kind of enhancement hoping to get some self esteem...I totally understand why you would go that route but I have to say you are on the wrong road my friend. Instead...as many others have pointed out...you need to own your penis and instead focus on other things. There may be some guys who don't like a small penis...so what? I don't care who you are there is guaranteed to be something about you that will turn off alot of people and that is OK....we dont need to be everything for everybody.

...having said that...back to my true story....

I was a slut and quite happy about it...no hand wringing moralistic crap here or desire to imitate the Virgin Mary...I am proud of my slut days....I was good at it and it was good for me:biggrin:...and one night this really sexy guy was sitting by the pool table and we were flirting and he asked me if I wanted to go home with him...I said YES...and we got there and things went downhill fast. He was really down on himself...he had a prosthetic leg (he lost his leg in an accident)) ...and a small penis...and he was very worried about it. I was getting turned off more by the second but it had nothing to do with his leg or his penis...it was his attitude. I could see he was really bothered by it all though so I pushed him down on the table and rode his cock hard until I had an explosion...it felt great. Your prostate is only about 2 inches up your ass and I loved feeling his dick because it massaged my prostate real good.

He started getting down on himself afterwards again and I reminded him that he was missing the most important piece of the puzzle...the biggest sex organ anyone has is the mind,...and we are all on equal ground there. I told him if he ever changed his attitude to call me because despite him not liking himself too much...I thought he was sexy EXCEPT for his attitude. The leg? No problem. The penis? I had a rockin' orgasm and gave him one as well:biggrin: The attitude? Err...that is THE problem

[matchbox]

Hi there.

It's not the size of your penis that's important, it's what you do with it. As others have said, there's way too much emphasis on penis size. You meed to enjoy what you have and not be concerned about size. And don't waste your time and money on pills or treatments as they don't work.