Things to try? :)

[Rikki]

Have you ever tried tickling as a sensual torture...whilst tied up?

[Puck]

*sigh* can't believe I'm actually going to share this with you guys.......here goes nothing.....

Look into the various fetishes out there.....if you can imagine it, porn and sexual activities of it exists.

Personally, I have a foot and tickling fetish and I love to introduce unsuspecting boyfriends to my "torture" chamber *evil grin*

try this...my last boyfriend absolutely adored it. Rub lotion onto one of your hands and SLOWLY jerk him off with it, avoiding making him climax at all costs!

While doing so, tickle his feet in whatever manner you deem appropriate (I prefer the use of my tongue) but jerk him off WHILE he is being tickled...not when you stop.

He'll soon learn to associate tickling with sexual stimulation and be all the more willing. Plus...its just fun having this wiggling, giggling mess of a guy as putty in your hands :biggrin:

[myapple]

This might be a bit controversial but seriously watch porn, I've learned all my best moves from porn and all of them have worked, put it this way I'm not known as "the sex panther" for nothing.

I couldn't have said it any better myself lol. Porn gives you so many different things to choose from and try.

[BabyPolarBear]

Dirty talk-
spanking-
You've been a bad boy Dirty talk-
Master Slave-
Master slave dirty talk-
Biting or nibbling the neck other places, lower places -
that kind of dirty talk that you fell almost bad about afterwords but you keep using it anyway-
Role playing and the 100 of hours of dirty talk that come with it

[ATXtoLA]

i know you said no fisting, and i'm not insinuating that you should start there... but i like fingering my boyfriend. not only to loosen up his hole, but after i've been at it a while with him, i'll see how many fingers i can get it. move em around a bit and find his prostate.. he goes nuts. and also try video head cleaner aka poppers, a whiff of that will get you totally relaxed and ready. does anyone know what I'm mentioning here? i mean, it's pretty common stuff...

[ATXtoLA]

fingering... not only to loosen up his hole but after you've been at it for a while. see how many fingers you can fit and move em round... he'll go nuts. my bf does.