Member's Testimonials On GaySpeak

[damon]

hey bros, how are you all, a long time no being here , hope you all are fine. i am back, who am i ? yeah, i am the most powerful vampire damon ............lol...........................

[marshlander]

hey bros, how are you all, a long time no being here , hope you all are fine. i am back, who am i ? yeah, i am the most powerful vampire damon ............lol...........................

[lumineux]

I was looking for a gay community forum, and Google helpedme to get to this place. I'm form Serbia, Looking for nice people all over the world to chat, talk, make friends etc. Hope I'll stay for a while

[Almac]

Hi Welcome lumineux

[paulbrazilbh]

Well, my name is Paulo, I'm from Brazil (Belo Horizonte) and put a testemonial here is a great way to confirm how happy I am by being here.

I found the site usign my cel phone (aaaaahhh :-) ), I was searching for a gay forum using an application that I have bought for him and found a lot, so Ive chosen this one due to the description and the first topics thag I saw.

It was a great choice in the right time... I was in the end of am relationship and some great peolple here already has passed by a lot of experiences and their share helped me a lot by pass thru it :-)

It's a great place to be, I feel like being in a place with some great friends, true ones.

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[Pix]

I just wanted to say thank you to GaySpeak. When I first looked for a messageboard I looked for a lesbian one and I almost joined one instead of coming here. For some strange reason the lesbian board I almost joined said my hotmail was banned from their site which was strange as I'd never heard of them before (maybe it was just a glitch?). So I searched a little more and found GaySpeak and this is the first time in MANY years that I've found myself participating on a board as much as I have (granted, part of that is I have so much more time and I'm separated from my regular friends and acquaintances). And now I'm glad that I failed to join that lesbian board. mile:

At first I was a little distressed that there weren't more women on GS but I adjusted and I'm finding all you men so very interesting and fascinating. Granted, it's a little confusing sometimes like it seems to me that men use "top" and "bottom" a little different from how lesbians do, for example, and I often wonder if I'm intruding when I see the threads on guy sex where a guy perspective is generally sought.

My experience with gay and bi men has been pretty limited. I knew a few when I was a 15-year-old runaway before I identified as anything, and I liked (and fooled around with) a bisexual boy when we were both 17. But after that I never got close to any other gay men.

I didn't go to gay and lesbian bars and clubs much save when I was dating & living with a stud who loved going. Sometimes it was a place where gay men and lesbians both mixed together (and sometimes only one certain days of the week) and other times it was strictly for lesbian and bi women. She was competitive and jealous so it was hard for me to talk to anyone without her acting like a rooster, something that annoyed me, and she would even do it with gay guys (I guess she figured they might be bi). I do have some fond memories of gay men I met back then but I never really had the chance to get that close to any because of her behavior and now I see I was really missing out. I'm glad to have met so many gay and bi men here on GaySpeak. mile:

[Uke]

I just wanted to say thank you to GaySpeak. When I first looked for a messageboard I looked for a lesbian one and I almost joined one instead of coming here. For some strange reason the lesbian board I almost joined said my hotmail was banned from their site which was strange as I'd never heard of them before (maybe it was just a glitch?). So I searched a little more and found GaySpeak and this is the first time in MANY years that I've found myself participating on a board as much as I have (granted, part of that is I have so much more time and I'm separated from my regular friends and acquaintances). And now I'm glad that I failed to join that lesbian board. mile:

At first I was a little distressed that there weren't more women on GS but I adjusted and I'm finding all you men so very interesting and fascinating. Granted, it's a little confusing sometimes like it seems to me that men use "top" and "bottom" a little different from how lesbians do, for example, and I often wonder if I'm intruding when I see the threads on guy sex where a guy perspective is generally sought.

My experience with gay and bi men has been pretty limited. I knew a few when I was a 15-year-old runaway before I identified as anything, and I liked (and fooled around with) a bisexual boy when we were both 17. But after that I never got close to any other gay men.

I didn't go to gay and lesbian bars and clubs much save when I was dating & living with a stud who loved going. Sometimes it was a place where gay men and lesbians both mixed together (and sometimes only one certain days of the week) and other times it was strictly for lesbian and bi women. She was competitive and jealous so it was hard for me to talk to anyone without her acting like a rooster, something that annoyed me, and she would even do it with gay guys (I guess she figured they might be bi). I do have some fond memories of gay men I met back then but I never really had the chance to get that close to any because of her behavior and now I see I was really missing out. I'm glad to have met so many gay and bi men here on GaySpeak. mile:

That gives me interesting insight. I've always wondered how lesbians see the world (pretty much the same lol but you know, few things are different obviously). In fact, lesbians and their dimension seem quite fascinating to me. I mean...what kind of qualities determine which one is the "husband" and which one is the "wife".

Well obviously terms like "top" and "bottom", as well as "uke" and "seme" are used to gay men, and may not suite lesbians. But just think "bottom" and "uke" as the passive one, and "top" and "seme" as the aggressive one. By that way even women can identify themselves with the situation ^^

[ZackT]

I kinda think that for lesbians, defining who's the "Husband" so to speak is probably more about personality than it is sexual. For a guy, you can do it in either personality or who's the top/bottom. Either way though, you can usually tell that one of the guys is more masculine or more feminine than the other and I think the same is true with women.

The lesbians I've been friends with are kinda more masculine than other women. Not so much in their appearance, but more in their attitude and demeanor. I think that's what defines their household roles

[princealbertofb]

I just wanted to say thank you to GaySpeak. When I first looked for a messageboard I looked for a lesbian one and I almost joined one instead of coming here. For some strange reason the lesbian board I almost joined said my hotmail was banned from their site which was strange as I'd never heard of them before (maybe it was just a glitch?). So I searched a little more and found GaySpeak and this is the first time in MANY years that I've found myself participating on a board as much as I have (granted, part of that is I have so much more time and I'm separated from my regular friends and acquaintances). And now I'm glad that I failed to join that lesbian board. mile:

At first I was a little distressed that there weren't more women on GS but I adjusted and I'm finding all you men so very interesting and fascinating. Granted, it's a little confusing sometimes like it seems to me that men use "top" and "bottom" a little different from how lesbians do, for example, and I often wonder if I'm intruding when I see the threads on guy sex where a guy perspective is generally sought.

My experience with gay and bi men has been pretty limited. I knew a few when I was a 15-year-old runaway before I identified as anything, and I liked (and fooled around with) a bisexual boy when we were both 17. But after that I never got close to any other gay men.

I didn't go to gay and lesbian bars and clubs much save when I was dating & living with a stud who loved going. Sometimes it was a place where gay men and lesbians both mixed together (and sometimes only one certain days of the week) and other times it was strictly for lesbian and bi women. She was competitive and jealous so it was hard for me to talk to anyone without her acting like a rooster, something that annoyed me, and she would even do it with gay guys (I guess she figured they might be bi). I do have some fond memories of gay men I met back then but I never really had the chance to get that close to any because of her behavior and now I see I was really missing out. I'm glad to have met so many gay and bi men here on GaySpeak. mile:

I guess the feeling is mutual. It's been a pleasure to interact with you, Pix... :biggrin:

[Pix]

I'm such a mix of male & female that I can't say where I stand in the male-female continuity. I appear pretty femme but that was because I had a long term relationship with a stud who preferred femmes to androgynous girls like I was when we first met (I was sometimes called a "boi" back then as I was very tomboyish, had short hair, and dressed pretty radically back then). She had a masculine personality (I sometimes couldn't help but tease her a little about that...) so we did have clear masculine-feminine dynamics (though we were both versatile sexually).

As I dressed more femme I found I got a lot more respect from society and more people were willing to do biz with me so I kept the look even after we broke up. I did cut my hair short which was a relief (though I've been letting it grow back out), but I think I remain pretty feminine, at least in appearance. After I cut my hair and wear things like my bib overalls (which I often do when I make my crafts) I can be described as chapstick.

But I'm also the one who takes care of the car (though I hate driving and so leave that to my partner and others as much as possible), deals with computer and electronic problems, takes care of the yard, assembles furniture, sees to our safety, get into lightsaber fights with my boy, taught the kids to longboard, wheel and deal (while my partner is a teacher), and I top my current partner sexually (though it's about pleasing her, not being the boss of her). OTOH, I also do the majority of cooking & cleaning, nurture the kids, help my girl with makeup, do a lot of the shopping, work with little girls as a "princess" (a birthday biz), and see to the comfort of guests in our home. I don't feel I embrace either a male or female side, rather I'm what's needed at the time without a preference.

I say I'm a top, but that just means I'm usually on top when it comes to sex, not that I "wear the pants" or anything like that (come to think of it, I wear dresses more than my partner does...and please, no one remind me of CWA's "Only Straight Girls Wear Dresses," please! ).