It's good and bad the wife dosnt want to let go, think of it as a compliment. How many times you hear gayspeak members advice to toss the gay cheating partner to the curb.
Dating my first gay man was an eye opener. I found out gay or straight relationships are mostly the same. At least you have a good friend with your wife, after 13years you would be lucky to have that in a gay relationship.
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Do you, could you wear a condom with the wife? Don't know why you need to tell him anything. A friends+ situation with this man, you would not want to bring something like the HIV home?
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I didn't say I was going to "hook up" with him tonight, just that I was going to tell him the truth. I think I owe him that, simply because he has been such a good friend in the short amount of time I've had to get to know him. That way if he is no longer comfortable in "goofing around" like we've been doing he will have that option to stop.
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Ok so I spoke to him last night, and OMG!! It was amazing! I'm not going to go into great detail, but the long and short of it was he told me he never suspected that I was gay but he was glad I told him because he had been going through the same thing! It was such a relief to finally talk to someone who truly understands face to face!
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Monk -- yes it does make a difference. I think I may be starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel!
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A positive outcome... Everything seems to get better once you get talking... and getting in touch with both your emotions and your libido... It does make a difference. Well done, and good luck with the progress you're making.
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Well I'm hoping that the wife won't be a problem too much longer. But he told me last night he would wait as long as it takes to be with me.
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How do you know?
