I don't have sex that often but when I do I'm normally a bottom, but sometimes my partner wants to bottom, but every time he wants too, as soon as the condom goes on I get soft or he can't get it in immediately and then I get soft lol, is this natural
I want to top but idk if I'm meant too
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Hmm are you not comfortable topping or something?
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maybe you need more foreplay.
some passionate kissing and caressing could get me erected for a long time.
try that. be passionate. the more you get aroused, the better erection you would possibly have
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yea foreplay always gets me suppperrr horny haha
and I don't think it's because I'm nervous lol
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When it comes to sexual roles I think we, and by we I mean the Gay community pay way too much attention to it.
That being said here's my experience.
I am normally a top, I have only been a bottom one time. The one time I was a bottom it was with a guy I really liked and it was quite painful, but also quite pleasureable. I don't know if it's because I am not used to it, or if it's an innate thing. I do know that in the future with guys I like I will be more willing to be a bottom because of that experience.
You should, in my opinion, do what you like, and also make sure your partner understands what you like.
In my experience most men, like to please their partners, those that don't are probably trouble in other ways.
Richard
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This may sound strange or not but if you love this person and you wish to give them what they want ...... well lets say there are certain attachments you can buy to help you do this . I do not want to be crude but it is the truth.
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