What's up with him

[jamiebfd]

Personally i think none of you were wrong.
Simple answer... tell him in advance when you are going to call him.

Its only been a few days so nerves will have been a factor here too.
just chill out and message him again. Apologise for not warning him about the call and you will txt first next time.

If he doesnt reply...oh well

[Nick9]

dating site + Cell (Mobile) phone number = TEXT ME, not phone me.

wow, really? :confused: I am surprised. I've never made a difference between these two things. Once I was sure enough about the guy to share the number, I was ok with both - the calling and texting.

[gayusasian]

maybe texts can hide his voice, making him less anxious.

[azulai]

Are you sure he's single?

I'm guessing here but maybe his "friend" was his wife or partner and that person was there with him. :tongue:

I don't think you did anything wrong, especially after reading your second post where it's clear he said for you to call him.

I would shake this off and move on.

[chillythoughts]

Some of us have social anxiety disorders or are just not bar or club people. We have no other way of finding guys.

oh, Im a ware of that. but if you use those sites, be cautious.