I would consider myself still questioning, basically and slowly accepting being gay, but I do find myself admiring a beautiful woman every so often. They basically look pretty because of something they are wearing. I can honestly say, I've never really cared much for boobs. However, I look at guys way more and when I see one I like, which is a lot, the feelings I get run all over my body. Get me a guy with great legs in athletic shorts or tight jeans and a nice butt, WOW! That doesn't happen with women.
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Exactly Double007, sure there are gorgeous women, great legs, thigh stomachs, nice butts, then my mid gets to "Ewww squishy chest and I know that thing down there smells like bad fish." Now put those toned legs, that tight stomach and cute butt on a guy and all I can think of is wanting all over him, or him all over me.
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No but we have a great time and I like them.
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Sometimes, but generally it's more to their minds than to their bodies. Women can be great friends. That's an attractive quality.
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46 years of life, discounting Meryl Streep there have been two women where I have seriously considered the whole 'man and wife, babies, car, house in the burbs... blah, blah, blah' thing.
They were lesbians, so I often amuse myself with the notion that I'm really a lesbian in a gay man's body. :tongue: And the act they were lesbians of the stronger type may preclude their gender but their more, um, masculine approach to life which I found attractive. :biggrin:
Now if we go against my experiences (real ones, not imagined) then being with 8 men and having had romantic feelings (never had a woman 'that way') then I would say that I'm 80% gay 10% straight.
However it really doesn't play well, considering all the men I have been attracted to and the goodly many where I contemplated suburbs, children, blah (marriage) then this drops the percentage of 'straight' real low, below 1%.
Is there the 'right woman' somewhere out there for me? Well with 7+ billion people on earth I'm sure there is one woman out there with the right mental/emotional equipment to rock my world. I won't discount the possibility. I just discount the probability that it will ever happen to me.
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I can be attracted to a girl with a great smile, or that loves to joke around and be herself, dont want to do anything sexually though just no motivation lol always seems like forced thoughts
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Yes, sometimes I do. I tend to get aroused by athletic women so I guess one could argue they still require some masculine traits to get me going. Al or so, who doesn't appreciate a nice smile or good sense of humor.
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