the gay population is 5% so there is a 95% chance that he is straight. look else where to resolve your dating needs, dont mix things up unless you want to afford the whole rent payment.
he might decide to leave if you start of date steady anyways.
keep the larger kitchen knives away from him.
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What you wear does not indicate any sexuality. while yes it's more likely for a gay man to wear dresses and such, that is not always the case. There are many heterosexual, transvestite men out there. If s guy wears pink or lavender, maybe he just likes that color.
As for running around your home in underwear, pajamas or trying on the t-shirt you just bought, that's pretty normal for anyone, male, female, straight, gay, bi or otherwise.
The bottom line is there is ONE and only one sure way to know what another person's sexual orientation is and, that is to ask them. Anything else is, at best, educated guessing.
Honestly, you don't even know his exact age or birthday without having to look it up? You don't know if he's dating anyone and, you are roommates. I think you need to get to know who your roommate is as a person, a potential friend before you get into anything about sex or sexuality.
In the mean time if all you want is a hook up, go find a local gay bar, and take a condom with you.
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Cutting through to the chase here.
Can you afford to live without a roommate?
If you do hook up and then it doesn't work can you still live with each other?
I really think it is time to talk about this with him ,tell him you are gay, wait for the reaction.
Golden Rule , if he has not told you he is gay then don't assume he is.
Best of luck.
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While I have no business giving advice giving my situation as my name states. But why not try leaving subtle hints around the house and see what his reaction is. Maybe leave a gay magazine somewhere. If his brother is gay I don't think he will react in a negative way if he finds out. So after he gets the hint he will either make the next move or tell you how he feels about you being gay/bi. Either way I don't think he will be upset about it.
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