I don't see why some people complain so much about being a girl's "gay friend." I love playing that role. I like to shop, eat, and talk with them about things only girls and gays can understand. I get why some people would rather be just "a friend." I mean, it is kind of stereotyping them, so I see what they mean, but I like playing this part. It's fun and so me. What's wrong with that?
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people complain about anything and everything, its an excellent friendship.
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I appreciate my GFs (hags). I can see not wanting them to introduce you as "my gay friend" but, I also see why they might in some situations.
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Its something I have a love/hate relationship with.
It used to annoy me when my friend Linda would introduce me to others by saying something like "This is my friend Chris, hands off, he's gay."
I view my sexuality as only a very little part of what makes me the person I am. Yeah, it used to annoy me when people did things like this...but hey, they don't mean any harm by it, I've just ignored it since. What does it accomplish complaining about petty things like that?
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I went to school with many girls, majoring in fashion design, the well known major in my high school. I was also one of the VERY few guys in the major. No one knew I was gay. I was very friendly with many of the girls in my class, and they told me their stories and issues like I was one of the girls. Really, they did. I made very few guy friends in high school - one.
Which brings me to the question: is that why I'm much more comfortable around girls than guys? I don't remember how to make new friends with a guy. I don't know how to talk to a guy. I am very intimidated by guys, hot looking, taller, smarter, more... just more... :confused:
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Although ultimately it is about the individual and that is all that matters...I have found myself enjoying the company and friendship of lesbians versus what some people call fag hags (I HATE that term) pretty much my whole life. I am not really into clothes or fashion or shopping so that connection is lost on me.
They dont' introduce me as their "gay friend":biggrin:
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