10-04-2012, 07:08 PM
Hi, I'm an italian boy...
I've done the coming out only with some friends (girls) and guys met on web communities...
So my sexuality is still a weak point for me: when I know a new individual, in particular if this individual is a man, I feel insicure and shy...maybe I fear to be rejected by him (or even her if the individual is a girl).
Sometimes I think that I am like this 'cause I don't want to take the risk...if I were myself with everyone I could lose many friends (I think) and my relatives..SO I am not myself with others and this makes me insicure and shy...
I hope that in the future I'll overcome my fear for others' judgement and a little bit my shyness
what about you??
I've done the coming out only with some friends (girls) and guys met on web communities...
So my sexuality is still a weak point for me: when I know a new individual, in particular if this individual is a man, I feel insicure and shy...maybe I fear to be rejected by him (or even her if the individual is a girl).
Sometimes I think that I am like this 'cause I don't want to take the risk...if I were myself with everyone I could lose many friends (I think) and my relatives..SO I am not myself with others and this makes me insicure and shy...
I hope that in the future I'll overcome my fear for others' judgement and a little bit my shyness
what about you??