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How to approach this... (I'm in a big fix.)
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Here are more details, in case you were wondering. He had a hard time telling me that he was bisexual, in fact, even after the things we had done..

[January of 2012, I believe. He texts me saying that he's bisexual. The previous night he and I spend the night at our friend's house, and I ask "Do you have any pubes? I don't recall ever feeling them.."
He replies with "Yes," pulls down his pants, and reveals his stash. The next Friday we do it again.]

I was very sensitive of his feelings, and I respected his privacy to not go farther than handjobs.

I'm not worried about that ratchet anymore. She's a bitch. I believe I was feeling a bit rushed by the scenario and thought that a person from TEXAS would make an impact on what my friend thinks of me now. I'd gone bollocks.

I do intend on telling him, now. The signs are strong, and even if he doesn't accept me, maybe he'll take the "best-friend" alternative and let it go. I am a bit worried. I don't like to express feelings...
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#12
To fear rejection is to be human. That said though im looked at weirdly in this manner, i do not fear rejection.

If i like someone i would tell them, out right. I used to walk up to girl in the passed for my friends and ask them out and then come back and tell them "no she thinks your a minger!"

but no i do not fear rejection because if you constantly live in fear of being rejected how will you ever know. and to live without knowing is not to live at all. The spur of the moment is sometimes what makes us feel alive, and if the spur turns into something better that moment is marked in our lives forever.

Goodluck, but i dont think your going to need it, what the question is, how much does he like you, he clearly likes you and trusts you enough to tell you his sexuality, but how far does it go, you only choice is to ask.
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