damned if I do, damned if I don't

[EvenOlderButWiser]

deep spiritual sex can make guys really serious...

So can the realisation that your about to kick into touch the best thing thats happened to you in the past 10 years!

Relationships are all about compromises. If they weren't life would be boring.

You just need to talk and at least discuss that balance point that you need in your life. You say he's never been out of state. Maybe a vacation to see that family of yours up Cali way (Thanksgiving?) is called for....

ObW
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[rover330]

or really stupid, one of the two, lol. probably best to not use your penis for a brain.

[EvenOlderButWiser]

or really stupid, one of the two, lol. probably best to not use your penis for a brain.

Hahaha

I think if you were to take a pole, either in public or here in GS, there would be a fairly high % of people - gay and straight - that would say thats exactly what a lot of men do anyway!

[rover330]

he's supposed to call when he gets off work later. I'm hovering around the phone like an idiot. Lord help me. if two people care about each other like this, there has to be a compromise. there almost would have to be by reason.

[rover330]

he never called. called him, went straight to voice mail.

if you love something, set it free... if it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't it never was to begin with

[rover330]

the other version of that is, "... if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it." but that's a bit extreme don't ya think, lol

[rover330]

hey man, I reckon I can wander off into the night, thinking about this dude... guess I'd rather be embracing him.

[Geminize]

Call him again! Leave a short and simple message. He's probably as confused as you are.