Questions about sex

[princealbertofb]

I have found alot of men trying to come out to me lately just for sake of a night stand, or may be a relationship, but I too am paranoid of catching anything, there are no gay condoms here in Pakistan, so I can't have safe sex, the regular condoms tear up in a few thrusts.

and Its almost two years I have been with my bf, I have never had sex with anyone but him, although I have kissed several guys in the past, but it never worked out with them because they wanted one night stand, and I didn't.

Mitch, they say that condoms will tear when, in fact, they are not the right size... I don't think it's anything to do with gay sex or straight sex... Maybe you are wearing, or they are wearing condoms that are too old? you can't use oily substances with them because they'll tear too, or maybe they are the wrong size... See if you can get bigger ones, or smaller ones...

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I have found alot of men trying to come out to me lately just for sake of a night stand, or may be a relationship, but I too am paranoid of catching anything, there are no gay condoms here in Pakistan, so I can't have safe sex, the regular condoms tear up in a few thrusts.

and Its almost two years I have been with my bf, I have never had sex with anyone but him, although I have kissed several guys in the past, but it never worked out with them because they wanted one night stand, and I didn't.

There is no such thing as gay condoms and straight condoms.

Either the ones you are using are too tight, or you are using a petroleum based product for lube, or no lube at all, or lastly, you don't know how to wear/use a condom.

If they are not too tight, then use a water based lube - lots of lube, the anus doesn't have a natural lube.

If you use a water based lube, then try rolling the condom down, then grabbing the tip and pulling a little to give you a bit of headroom. This way it can slide and not get pulled too tight.

If that still doesn't work, check the expiration date. Latex is natural rubber and does become fragile/brittle with age.